Create A Life You Love (Signed Copy!)
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How to quiet outside voices so you can finally hear your own.
You’ve asked your friends. Called your mom. Made the pro-and-con list. And you still don’t know what to do.
Whether you’re deciding where to live, what to do for work, whether to have kids, or what needs to change in the life you already have, Create a Life You Love will help you separate what you want from what you’ve been told you should want—and figure out your next step.
Through honest stories and practical exercises, I’ll help you weigh your options, handle other people’s opinions, and make decisions you can feel good about living with.
Your copy comes signed by Stephanie.
What’s inside
A signed paperback with stories, questions, and practical exercises to help you make the big decisions in your life.
The book has three parts:
- Why does it feel so hard? Understand the pressure to get marriage, motherhood, work, and everything else figured out—and why having more choices doesn’t always make choosing easier.
- But how do I do it? Follow my three-part process: Get Free, Get Inspired, Get Moving. Untangle the expectations you’ve inherited, discover possibilities you hadn’t considered, and work toward an actual decision.
- Pivots and roadblocks. Get help with the parts that don’t fit neatly on a vision board: people who disagree, a partner who wants something different, plans that don’t work out, and decisions you need to make again.
You’ll learn how to choose whose advice you trust, identify your non-negotiables, test possibilities before committing, and weigh what you’ll gain against what you’ll give up.
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Everyone has an opinion.
But you’re the one who has to live this life.
Stay at the stable job. Take the leap. Move closer to family. Travel while you can. Don’t rush into marriage. Don’t wait too long to have kids.
Okay. But when, exactly, are we supposed to figure out what we want?
Maybe you’re making a decision where every option seems to lead to a completely different life. Maybe the life you’ve worked so hard to build looks great on paper—but something about it doesn’t feel right anymore.
And maybe you’ve spent so long being good at doing what’s expected that when someone finally asks, “What do you want?” you honestly don’t know.
I know that feeling. I’m a recovering rule-follower who would very much like someone to hand me the assignment. But there’s no prize for dedicating your time and energy to building a life you don’t actually want to live.
That’s why I wrote this book. To help you figure out which expectations you want to keep, which ones you’re ready to question, and what else might be possible. Then we’ll get practical. We’ll sort through your options, weigh the trade-offs, and find a next step you can actually take.
You don’t need a perfect plan for the rest of your life. You need a way to make the decision in front of you.
Create a Life You Love will help you...
- Figure out what you want when everyone else has already told you what you should do. Start separating your own hopes from the expectations you’ve picked up along the way.
- Make a decision when your pro-and-con list isn’t helping. Weigh what you’ll gain and what you’ll give up—with more importance given to the things that matter most to you.
- See options beyond “do it this way” or “don’t do it at all.” Your career, marriage, family, and everyday life may have more room for creativity than you’ve been shown.
- Decide whose advice deserves a say. Someone can love you deeply and still want a life for you that you don’t want for yourself.
- Make big decisions with your partner when you want different things. Get beyond your opposing positions and talk about the needs, hopes, and fears underneath them.
- Change direction without deciding you’ve wasted your life. A job, home, or plan can have been right for you once and still need to change now.
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Create A Life You Love (Signed Copy!)
Create a Life You Love is a guided journey of self-discovery, helping you take the pressure off what you think your life is supposed to look like by now and intentionally, confidently, and authentically build the life you actually want to live — a life that looks and feels like YOU.
If you want to go a little deeper
Some decisions come with a whole season of questions. If one of these is yours, here’s where we can keep going.
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